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我终于懂得

我终于懂得

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我终于懂得,你不能勉强别人你,只能去惹人,至于爱与不爱,取决于他们。我终于懂得,无论我多么在乎,总有些人不会同样在乎我。我终于懂得,确立信任需要许多年,毁掉信任只需要一瞬间。我终于懂得,你生命中拥有什么东西不重要,重要的是拥有什么人。我终于懂得,美貌一时拥有,美丽却可天长地久。(古侯子注:或者翻译为“美貌只能拥有一时,内涵才可以持续长久”)

我终于懂得,你不该和别人的最好成绩比,而要和自己的最好成绩作比。我终于懂得,人生不在于命运如何待你,而在于你如何面对命运。我终于懂得, 不管你把东西撕得多么细,它都有两面。我终于懂得,你应该经常对你爱的人说深情的话,也许这是你最后一次见到他们。我终于懂得,在认为自己做不到之后,你 仍然能坚持很长时间。

我终于懂得,英雄,无悔,在需要时,做了必须做的事。我终于懂得,有些人深深地爱你,却不知如何表达。我终于懂得,生气时,我有权利生气,但是没权利伤人。我终于懂得,真正的友谊,如同真正的爱情,即使隔潜力也会继续。

我终于懂得,无论多好的朋友,都会偶尔伤害到你,你需要原谅他。我终于懂得,有时别人原谅你还不够,你必须自己原谅自己。我终于懂得,不管你的心有多痛,地球都不会为你停止转动。我终于懂得,两人争吵并不意味着他们不爱对方;两人没有争吵,也不一定心中有爱。

我终于懂得,有时你必须以人为本。我终于懂得,不同的人同时去看完全相同的事,却能看到完全不同东西。我终于懂得,无论结果如何,不自欺的人总能在生活中走得更远。我终于懂得,你的生命会在朋友需要你时发生改变,你总会拥有帮助他们的力量。

我终于懂得,写作,犹如倾诉,都能减轻心灵的痛苦。我终于懂得,生命中你最珍爱的那些人总是离开的太快。我终于懂得,与人为善和坚持原则总是让人两难。我终于懂得爱与被爱。我终于懂得了!

古侯子:在原翻译《我知道了》的基础上 ,略作修改;原翻译的网址是http://www.yeeyan.com/articles/view/49269/17440

I've Learned - by Omer Washington

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. I've learned that it takes years to build up trust and only seconds to destroy it. I've learned that it's not what you have in your live, but who you have in your life that counts. I've learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes, after that, you'd better know something.

I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do. I've learned that it's not what happens to people, it's what they do about it. I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides. I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you'll see them. I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.

I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. I've learned that there are people, who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it. I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel. I've learned that true friendship continues to grow even over the longest distance same goes for true love.

I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgive by others, sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself. I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief. I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other and just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I've learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions. I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. I've learned that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves get farther in life. I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I've learned that writing, As well as talking, Can ease emotional pains. I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon. I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe. I've learned to love and be loved. I've learned.

Omer Washington

文章修改记录:

2008.12.09,文章初稿

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       我终于懂得:目前有7 条留言
      1. 4楼
        oaktomber:

        文章不错,翻译的也不错。

        2008-12-09 10:27 上午 [回复]
      2. 地板
        hellen:

        我也懂得了写作可以减轻压力让心灵平静下来,
        我也懂得了写博客可以认识一些志同道合的朋友。^^

        2008-12-09 6:24 下午 [回复]
      3. 板凳
        左岸读书:

        🙂 这篇文章不错,古侯子 还是个英文高手啊!

        2008-12-09 7:30 下午 [回复]
      4. 沙发
        leoperfect:

        very good~

        2008-12-09 8:33 下午 [回复]
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